Three messages you'll actually see
tls: handshake failure— usually a wrong SNI or disguise domain, or the node simply isn't running TLS.x509: certificate signed by unknown authority— a self-signed certificate. Either put in the real domain, or tick skip certificate verification on that node.certificate has expired— server side. Only the provider can fix it.
Your clock breaks handshakes too
A system clock off by more than a few minutes is enough to fail certificate validation. Hit "Sync now" once in Windows Date & time and a surprising number of handshake errors disappear.
Skipping verification isn't a fix
Ticking skip verification does get you connected, but it also drops your protection against a man in the middle. Fine while you diagnose; if you're going to keep using that node, ask for a real certificate.